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Is Your Child's Behavior Dangerous To Pets?

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My friend Linda recently told me that she has some concerns about how her son is treating their cat.  She said that her son locks the cat in cabinets, and plays too roughly with it.  I told her that most cats will tolerate some roughhousing, and then when enough is enough will fight back.  I suggested that she continue to put a stop to any mean behavior she sees, and keep telling her son that he must always be kind to animals.  I also told her to watch and see how the relationship changes when the cat decides she’s had enough, and her son comes crying with a bite or a scratch.  At that point things can go two ways, her son learns to treat the cat with kindness and respect, or he punishes the cat further, and if the latter happens, she should be very concerned.

It made me wonder though, when should a parent be concerned that their child has crossed the line between being rough with a pet, and being intentionally cruel.  If your dog or cat is ok with roughhousing, or being dressed up like a doll, you don’t need to worry.  You should always discuss how your child may be making your pet feel so that he learns compassion, and learns when to back off and give your pet a break.  Your pet is also very capable of putting a stop to harassment, though in the case of a dog, this could be dangerous.  Most dogs are incredibly tolerant of their human companion’s behavior, but if they feel frightened, their reaction can turn violent.

It is important that you put a stop to cruel behavior immediately.  Children don’t usually grow out of this kind of behavior, and the natural progression is that they move on to human victims.  Always set a good example in how you interact with pets to teach children to be compassionate and responsible pet guardians.

Watch For Signs

Signs that your child needs intervention to correct cruel behavior before it escalates:

If your child won’t release a pet that is struggling to escape or continues to chase it when it is obviously running away in fear.

If your child becomes more and more secretive about his cruel behavior after being told to stop.

Putting the pet in dangerous situations to terrify it, like dangling it out a window or over a balcony, locking it in a washing machine or dryer - even without turning it on, leading it out to the street.

Restraining the pet in any way, like locking the pet in a closet or cabinet to hear it cry in distress.  Tying it up near something that scares it like fire.  Binding it’s tail or paws tightly with rubber bands or string.

If your child appears to enjoy watching a pet in pain or frightened.

Obvious signs like cutting or burning a pet.

Getting Help

If discussing the problem with your child isn’t working, the next step is getting some professional counselling.  Talk to your child’s pediatrician about getting a referral to a counsellor or psychologist.  Don’t be ashamed or embarrassed about getting help for your child, it is absolutely imperative that you put a stop to this kind of behavior to prevent it from doing permanent psychological damage to your child.  

 

Danielle Nottingham is a veterinary technician and writer at DogTrainingCollars.com who often writes about bad pet habits, or bad pet-owner habits, and ways to correct them.

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5 Ways That Pets Can Help With A Child's Development

Somewhere along the line of a child’s development, he must learn about the world outside of his own individual needs and wants. While he can be left alone to find things and explore his surroundings, under adult supervision or care, he needs assistance for the most part. Pet animals can help in this instance if the child cannot have adult help.

More specifically, animals can help in the child’s development in the following aspects.

Physical development.

To strengthen and develop his muscles the right way, a child should exercise them through vigorous movement. Interacting with a frisky pet, the child will be encouraged to experiment with his motor skills, learning along the way. Aside from being fun, the child-animal interactive activities are never monotonous, though they may look routinary. In other words, running with the dog in the park will be more enjoyable than jogging alone around the neighborhood, no matter how pretty the area is.

Emotional development.

In many instances, pets that serve well are first given friendly attention, then lavished with loving affection. There are millions of stories about people considering pets as members of their families, to the point where the animals were endowed with inheritance and similar actions normally given to human relatives.

For a child, an animal may give unconditional loyalty and affection, so that it almost becomes a surrogate sibling when such is absent. Thus the child learns emotional reciprocity, responsibility, kindness and, yes, love and loving. The animal becomes the object as well as giver of affection that becomes a vehicle for emotional growth.

Furthermore, by learning that animals also have feelings, children may also learn to understand the animal better and therefore by extension, himself.

Social development.

A pet can serve as the focus or bridge of relationship between socially less open children, as well as become a social companion for the child in lieu, and even in spite, of the presence of peers. This latter becomes more important in instances where the child must have less social criticism and more acceptance. Animals give singular attention and often affection that the child can be less inhibited in expressing his feelings, resulting in better self-esteem.

Intellectual development.

A child will wonder why his pet acts one way and not another, obeys a command or not, responds to one way of calling and differently to another, so that he starts to associate a result to a previous condition, encouraging rationality. This post hoc, ergo propter hoc logic he can thus apply to other things in life and may serve him well later on.

Therapeutic service.

A child who does not understand human behavior ---often temporarily, as when Mom scolds him—may well turn to an animal to vent his feeling and express sadness. Because a pet is never judgmental, the child experiences total acceptance and no discouragement which lessens his hurt and raises his self-respect. This can be a positive factor whose influence on the child can never be quantified even later.

In short, a child’s humanity is enhanced by his constant association with a friendly, affectionate pet animal. Children who grew up with a pet tend to become better adults in many ways afterwards. 

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This article was written by Claire from Easipetcare - nationwide low cost vet centres. When Claire isn't blogging she loves spending time with her 2 kittens while tucking into her favourite book. 

5 Ways That Pets Can Help With A Child's Development

Somewhere along the line of a child’s development, he must learn about the world outside of his own individual needs and wants. While he can be left alone to find things and explore his surroundings, under adult supervision or care, he needs assistance for the most part. Pet animals can help in this instance if the child cannot have adult help.

More specifically, animals can help in the child’s development in the following aspects.

Physical development.

To strengthen and develop his muscles the right way, a child should exercise them through vigorous movement. Interacting with a frisky pet, the child will be encouraged to experiment with his motor skills, learning along the way. Aside from being fun, the child-animal interactive activities are never monotonous, though they may look routinary. In other words, running with the dog in the park will be more enjoyable than jogging alone around the neighborhood, no matter how pretty the area is.

Emotional development.

In many instances, pets that serve well are first given friendly attention, then lavished with loving affection. There are millions of stories about people considering pets as members of their families, to the point where the animals were endowed with inheritance and similar actions normally given to human relatives.

For a child, an animal may give unconditional loyalty and affection, so that it almost becomes a surrogate sibling when such is absent. Thus the child learns emotional reciprocity, responsibility, kindness and, yes, love and loving. The animal becomes the object as well as giver of affection that becomes a vehicle for emotional growth.

Furthermore, by learning that animals also have feelings, children may also learn to understand the animal better and therefore by extension, himself.

Social development.

A pet can serve as the focus or bridge of relationship between socially less open children, as well as become a social companion for the child in lieu, and even in spite, of the presence of peers. This latter becomes more important in instances where the child must have less social criticism and more acceptance. Animals give singular attention and often affection that the child can be less inhibited in expressing his feelings, resulting in better self-esteem.

Intellectual development.

A child will wonder why his pet acts one way and not another, obeys a command or not, responds to one way of calling and differently to another, so that he starts to associate a result to a previous condition, encouraging rationality. This post hoc, ergo propter hoc logic he can thus apply to other things in life and may serve him well later on.

Therapeutic service.

A child who does not understand human behavior ---often temporarily, as when Mom scolds him—may well turn to an animal to vent his feeling and express sadness. Because a pet is never judgmental, the child experiences total acceptance and no discouragement which lessens his hurt and raises his self-respect. This can be a positive factor whose influence on the child can never be quantified even later.

In short, a child’s humanity is enhanced by his constant association with a friendly, affectionate pet animal. Children who grew up with a pet tend to become better adults in many ways afterwards. 

Featured images:

This article was written by Claire from Easipetcare - nationwide low cost vet centres. When Claire isn't blogging she loves spending time with her 2 kittens while tucking into her favourite book.